What to do after a long-distance relationship quarrel

   Date:2022-01-22     source:Emotional classroom    author:healthy    Browse:606    

What to do after a long-distance relatio<em></em>nship quarrel

What to do after a long-distance relationship quarrel

Don't think that you are married and that your mother-in-law's house is your own. It's better to pay attention to it. You can buy some health care items when you return to your mother-in-law's house during the New Year, or your local specialties, or you can buy some clothes for your parents-in-law and mother-in-law, such as thermal underwear. If you really can’t, you can ask your husband, what his parents-in-law like and what their personality is. If the mother-in-law loves to dress up, you can buy some silk scarves, gold and silver jewelry for her, if she is a farmer at home , It’s best to buy some affordable ones. In addition to some small gifts, it is recommended to buy another physical examination package. Many elders do not take the initiative to take the physical examination on time. They are very confident and feel that their health is fine. In fact, they are just not willing to spend the medical examination money instead of spending it. Time to convince them of the physical examination, it is better to simply arrange it directly, tell them that the money has been spent, and that they will not be refunded if they don't go. The health is the most important thing.

It’s better to say that it’s related to people and abilities. Some parents don’t care about this, and some people have great abilities. Although it will be affected by the influence of the family, it will continue to grow with their performance. Well, the impact will become smaller and smaller.

What to do after a long-distance relatio<em></em>nship quarrel

What to do after a long-distance relationship quarrel

If it makes you unhappy on a rainy day, there is a kind of meditation, which is to imagine yourself as a kind of flowers, flowers, and grass.

No matter where I meet you, I will love you.

What to do after a long-distance relatio<em></em>nship quarrel

What to do after a long-distance relationship quarrel

My husband and I met while studying abroad. After graduation, we also stayed and worked abroad. Because of the influence of foreign thoughts, the two of us were not prepared to have children and wanted to live in a two-person world. But family members do not understand our thoughts and have been forcing us to have children, especially mother-in-law and my mother. I would like to ask if there are many families in China that do not have children. The cultural attributes of China are changing little by little. I used to think that giving birth is to provide for the elderly, but now this kind of thinking is slowly changing. Because parents also gradually feel that the child is also an independent individual, and it would be selfish to forcibly entrust this burden to the child. As a modern urban youth, many people choose to be single or even unmarried. Some people choose to be DINK after they get married. Of course, it is difficult for traditional families to tolerate the existence of this kind of thinking. But regardless of tolerance, the factual basis is getting less and less. Now the pressure of life is much greater than before. Housing prices are constantly rising, medical insurance is not complete, there are car loans, various installment loans, some people say that Huabei and credit cards have ruined our generation, but without these support, According to traditional thinking, it must be exhausted for the child, and then nothing will be enjoyed in the end. There is also the best age for girls to have children. After that age, children will be born again, and the children will become weak and sick, and their body will not recover well. Of course it’s good to have children, but we have unfinished mortgages and loans from friends. We can’t guarantee our own lives. We don’t have basic funds for our children. How can we give birth? What is it for? At this time, the mother-in-law may not be happy, you think too much! Didn’t we come here too? Didn’t our parents raise us the same way? Isn’t the child taken care of in the same way? And not only are we a child, how come you can’t do it? In order to hug her grandson, the mother-in-law wants you to give birth to a baby as soon as possible. As for how to raise them, it certainly can't be given to them all. We can be poor if we are not rich, right, everyone’s birth is different, you can’t ask yourself to be as rich as a celebrity. There is also the fact that young people nowadays are really too busy, getting up early every day, crowding the bus and subway to work, and working overtime until late at night, gradually becoming the norm. In addition, in order to avoid falling down in fast-paced, high-intensity work, you have to spare time to exercise and keep your body in good shape. After finally getting through the weekend, I just want to relax my body and mind, paralyze at home and let myself go, or go out to talk with friends. Have a baby? Pregnancy? Make people? Sorry, I really don't have that energy. You can't even spare the time and energy to have a baby, let alone bring a baby. In general, the reasons why young people are less and less wanting to have children are nothing more than these four points: No money, no time, distressed for the child, not worth the loss. To sum up to one point: I don't want to make life too bad. This is not wrong, because everyone has the right to pursue a high-quality life. The same is true for fertility.

You don't need to bring food for him in the future, there is no need for such a person to have a deep friendship anymore. It's best to find a small ledger and remember every pen, so that you can settle the bill after the end of the month. Don't feel embarrassed, the person who should be embarrassed should be him. You brought him food out of kindness. It is already your kindness to not ask him for running errands.

What to do after a long-distance relatio<em></em>nship quarrel

What to do after a long-distance relationship quarrel

After the rain, the sky is sunny and white clouds are floating, and the blue sky is flying with clouds and the rainbow bridge. Just do the sunny days after the rain.

If you are a cactus, I am willing to endure all the pain to hold you.

 
 
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